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Love Does Not Boast

Proud As A Peacock?

As you view picture of the peacock published by National Geographic consider its   beauty. 
 

This peacock was created with much of which to be proud.  Yet, it has no mouth from which it can boast.

The love of God is "others" oriented. When we put God's love into action, we use our knowledge, skills, and abilities to benefit others.  In the process we may become the focus of attention. However, we are never to take the spotlight, the page, the microphone, the break room, the bus seat, the elevator, or any other venue to place ourselves in the spotlight.

Boasting  has its origin in pride. It occurs when a person chooses to puff himself up. Merriam Webster defines boasting as the act of asserting or speaking of oneself "with excessive pride." 

 

 

Some boasting is subtle and harder to detect. For example, scorning others, putting others down, mocking others, teasing and taunting others, or minimizing the efforts of others make us feel bigger. However, it is pride that causes us to assume that we are standard by which someone else is to be judged.

The Bible speaks to God's displeasure in pride. That also means that God is displeased with the behaviors that result from a prideful heart.

Boasting is not from God. (1 John 2:16)

God resists those who are proud. (Proverbs 3:34)

A prideful attitude is the precursor to a downfall. (Proverbs 16:18)

Overcome the pride that causes boasting by practicing humility (James 3:13)

God gives grace to the humble. (Proverbs 3:34 and
James 4:6)

It is okay to boast when your boasting is about God's working through you.
(Jeremiah 9:23-24)

When you have the urge to tell everyone how great you are--fight it. When you focus the attention of others on your successes, they won't stop looking until they see your failures.  Don't be quick to brag or boast.  Humble yourself before God, and His promise is that He will lift you up. 


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